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Top 10 Posts Of All Time

top 10 posts of all time

It is so hard to believe that A New Kind of Normal has been in existence for over 10 years (almost 10 1/2!). Since thing were so crazy last year, we never really got to celebrate the 10 year mark, I thought I would take a day out of Bloguary to earmark the top 10 posts of all time here on A New Kind of Normal (well, at least they are the top 10 posts for the last 10 years)!

Here they are counting down from 10 to 1:

10) Things To Say (& Not Say) To Someone With Chronic Illness

9) What Is In Your Flare Survival Kit?

8) Mission Aborted: When Routine Procedures Go Wrong

7) Fighting The Tube: Recovering From Bowel Obstruction Surgery

6) Surgery Survival Kit

5) The Bowel Prep Survival Kit

4) One Little Word For 2014: Fierce

3) A Frozen Birthday & Bedroom

2) My Hair Hurts: Dealing With Tactile Allodynia & Fibromyalgia

and….drumroll please…..

1) The First 7 Days After Bowel Obstruction Surgery

 

I Am Bold

It is hard to believe that it has been over 10 years since A New Kind of Normal was born! So many amazing – and challenging – things have happened along the way but I am excited about what is going to happen this year and hopefully for many, many more years after!

 

Here is to Living Boldly for another 10 years!

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Welcome Back To A New Kind of Normal!

A New Kind of Normal Relaunch

Words cannot describe how excited I am to say, “Welcome back to A New Kind of Normal!!!”

It has been way, way too long since I have had a chance to really sit down and write and – excuse my French – damn it feels good! 2017 has a hell of a year all the way around and I am so glad that it is OV-ER and a new year is upon us! I have so, so much to tell you and so, so many things that I want to see accomplished this year but I am learning to embrace moderation to avoid burnout.

I am sorry that this post is so short but so far I have been working on this blog for 8 hours straight! You will be seeing a lot of sawdust as the site is still under construction! I know you saw the Maintenance sign up but what can I say, I am a girl that changes her mind and I just have so many ideas that I want to put into action and I just didn’t want to wait any longer!

Reconnecting

A New Kind of Normal has always been focused on changing the lives of those with chronic illness and encouraging the to choose hope and joy despite chronic illness and to live boldly in spite of it. This will continue to be the driving force behind it but this year the focus will narrow in on reconnecting to our bodies in a positive way and reclaiming our confidence. When you have chronic illness, it can be difficult to maintain a positive view of your body when you feel like it has betrayed you. If I had a dollar for every time I ever said “My body hates me,” I would be living on a tropical island. I hate feeling this way and I know that I am not alone that is why I am hoping to change my way of thinking. Scratch that – that is what I am hoping to change our way of thinking.

Reclaiming

Along with reconnecting, let’s talk about the reclaiming. My family makes statements all the time about my love of makeup as an attempt to feel beautiful when it couldn’t be farther from the truth. I don’t need makeup to be beautiful. God stitched me together piece by piece and He called me beautiful so I can feel beautiful in a glamorous wedding gown or a hospital gown or in full glam makeup with false eyelashes, the whole nine yards or not a stitch of makeup. Now that we have laid that to rest, let’s get to the real reason why I love makeup so much.

The second half of this goal focuses on reclaiming our confidence. Makeup doesn’t make me feel beautiful, it makes me feel confident. It gives me an avenue through which I can express my creativity. I can feel feminine. I can feel edgy. I can feel both. I want for each of one of us to find an avenue through which we can all reclaim this confidence. I want us to feel good about our bodies and feel spunky, sassy, sexy, fierce, creative, bold, audacious, unique, and on and on. I want that for all of us. Each and every one of us deserve to feel like the most rockin’ chick on the planet.

This is what I want for A New Kind of Normal. This new mission statements reads:

to create a community of rebel hearts living boldly to smash through the limitations that chronic illness has tried to build around them with a fierce beauty and confidence all their own.

The five things that I want a reader to feel while she is reading my blog is connected, empowered, inspired, creative, and confident.

Reading these five words get me so excited that my husband is honestly giving me weird looks.

This is just a small taste of what is to come! I cannot wait to finish telling out everything that I have planned for A New Kind of Normal but that will have to wait until tomorrow!

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avoiding cross-contamination when you have celiac disease

May is Celiac Awareness Month so it is perfect time to build on to my post with 5 insider tips when you are newly diagnosed with celiac disease. There is so much to learn when you change over to a gluten-free lifestyle and are living with celiac disease and it can be totally overwhelming at times. Today’s round up of tips for living with celiac disease focus on some little things that are often overlooked that can lean to some painful gluten cross contamination.

Here are 5 tips that you may want to know when you are living with celiac disease:

1- Purchase a second toaster specifically for gluten-free use.

I am so glad I had met with that dietician or I would have never thought of this! Putting gluten-free bread in the same toaster as regular bread is just asking for trouble. Think about all the crumbs that hang out in the bottom of a toaster. You do not what your GF bread hanging out in there.

In my house, I have a separate area in the kitchen that is kind of like “gluten-free corner.” I have my own toaster and keep all of my breads, snacks, etc in that area. My toaster is also red as a visual reminder. Some other items you want to be weary of sharing with non-gluten free foods include a deep fryer, bread machines, wooden utensils and tools (such as cutting board, rolling pin, etc), and even microwaves. You don’t need to have completely separate microwaves but you need to be mindful of how you are using it with both gluten-free and gluten-containing foods.

For more advice on how to set up your kitchen, check out this post about 10 ways you may be getting glutened by your kitchen.

2- Prepare and/or serve gluten-free foods first.

Obviously others are not worried about being contaminated with gluten-free foods (except when it comes to eating a gluten-free biscuit – I think my husband almost died from trying to choke down a dry-as-the-sahara biscuit I attempted to make in my early years of GF baking) but some issues can rise when the kitchen gets busy and both gluten-free and gluten-full foods are served on the same countertop. Some people with Celiac do not have a strong reaction to cross contamination but for others, it can take the smallest amount of gluten to induce a major reaction which depending on the situation can be slightly embarrassing.

The reason I mention serving gluten-free foods first  (or allowing the person with Celiac to fix their plate first) is that naturally as a family is gathered around the table, serving spoons don’t always stay where they should or people can grab something with their hands and without noticing, contamination can become a problem. This is especially true if you have a larger family meal, a dinner party, or a pot luck type situation so instead of having to worry about it throughout the meal, allow the person with celiac to go first or just automatically dish out a certain amount of foods to be put aside away from the rest of the dinner to keep your gluten-free foods safe. No one wants to spend time worrying when they could be fully enjoying the fun and their guests.

3- Educate family and friends.

It may seem uncomfortable but it helps so much in the long run to educate family or close friends that you enjoy sharing meals with frequently. You don’t need to give them the full rundown of Celiac and its affects on the body but just letting them know what kinds of foods contain gluten – BROW – barley, rye, oats, and wheat. My parents do SO much baking at Christmas (I cannot even begin to guess how many dozens of cookies get cranked out of that kitchen every December) so my mom really wanted to learn about how she can adapt some of my Christmas faves to be gluten-free. My dad is so amazing and he always goes out of his way to research my illnesses. If we are planning a trip, he always finds the gluten-free dining options ahead of time which always makes me feel special. Obviously I am adult and always do the same thing but it makes me feel special that he pays attention the way that he does. I have amazing parents, people.

As far as friends go, the easiest thing would be to host the meal so you know everything that is going on in the kitchen or to prepare yourself a gluten-free meal and bring it with you so no one else has to worry about it. I like to do this as it is easier all the way around but I do have friends that want to know more about my diet needs so they can prepare gluten-free meals when they wish to. Even if you are the one that does all the cooking, it is just a good idea to give your family and friends the cliff notes version of celiac just to be sure.

4- Adopt the phrase “If I don’t know, it don’t go.”

As I mentioned in my post on things to know when you are newly diagnosed with celiac, reading labels is of great importance as is knowing restaurant menus. Eating at pot lucks and buffets are pretty much impossible if you have Celiac because you either don’t know fully what is gluten-free and what isn’t but the chances of cross contamination are huge. Just to be cautious and as someone who has a violent reaction to the slightest bit of gluten, if I don’t know 100% that the food is gluten-free, then I don’t eat it. Something that can be noticed on some food labels is the phrase “made on the same equipment with products containing wheat/nuts/etc.” This is really important to take notice of. The food itself may be gluten-free but it is processed on the same equipment as gluten-filled products which heightens the risk of cross-contamination. For examples, Rice Krispies themselves are gluten-free but because they are processed on the same machines as other cereals, they become contaminated. When you are reading labels, make sure to read the whole label versus just the ingredients so that you know all the facts.

5- Keep Gluten Cutter (or a similar product) on hand in case you get contaminated.

Gluten Cutter does not allow you to indulge in gluten-filled foods but it helps your body process the gluten and remove it from your system quicker. It doesn’t work the came way Lactaid does for those that are lactose intolerant.  You will still feed all the funky side effects but it will help your body process it out of your system quicker which in turn should help those side effects fade quicker as well. Supposedly they are working on a type of medication for those with Celiac that allows you to eat gluten-filled foods. We’ll have to wait and see what happens there!

Tips for living with celiac disease

In the meantime, as persons with Celiac, we just need to be diligent to avoid gluten-filled foods and situations where cross contamination could be an issue. Hopefully these posts have been helpful! Coming up with be a post with 3 of my favorite super-easy and super-yummy gluten-free recipes!

What tips for living with celiac disease would you give someone about cross-contamination and maintaining a gluten-free lifestyle?