Final Taking Time for Yourself in May Special Edition: 7 Ways to Feel More Glamorous

Seriously, who doesn’t want a little more glamor in life? Especially when battling chronic illness or just life in general! Here are 7 life-tested ways to make your life more glamorous brought to you by Onsimplicity.net.

Seven Life-Tested Ways to Make Your Simple Life More Glamorous


Ahh, the simple life. That’s all about farming and sewing muu-muus and eating porridge, right? Well, not so much. Just because you value simplicity, that doesn’t mean you have to give up on the finer (and fun) things in life. I’m a big believer in indulging your whims every now and then, since they’re what give simple life flavor and fun. Read on for seven simple ways to add glamour to your life.
  1. Give yourself the red carpet treatment. Sometimes you simply need to pencil in the glamour. There are tons of options for rituals that make your life feel rich: bubble baths, cocktail hour, high tea, and so on. By ritualizing these experiences, you get a chance to feel spoiled everyday, in a way that’s fun for you and fits your budget. It’s a good way to stay satisfied. After all, it’s difficult to feel deprived when you’ve got a treat coming your way each day.
  2. Invest in the best. Living simply doesn’t mean burlap rucksacks for everyone. It means having just what you need, some that you want, and not much more. By investing in quality items, from the staple clothes you wear to the items in your home, you’ll need to upgrade and replace less often. I’ll be honest; it’s a very fine line to walk and “expensive” doesn’t always equal “quality.” But there is a case to be made for having one incredible pair of shoes that lasts for two decades (with resoling) instead of poorly constructed ones that need to be replaced every six months.
  3. Pretend you’re in your own music video. Strut your stuff and put on your best “It’s so hard being gorgeous” pout, even if you’re the only one around. (Actually, especially if you’re the only one around.) It’s a silly approach, but it’s effective and it encourages you take life a little less seriously. I like to pretend I’m in my own personal Whitesnake video, especially on windy days.
  4. Forge your own social successes. So you’re not part of the A-list. Make your own! Invite your favorite friends over for a potluck soiree. Have them invite their most interesting friends. Repeat. Before you know it, you’ll be in the center of an exciting social scene.
  5. Change your perspective. You don’t have to embrace the fashion magazine standard of glamour. Maybe for you, a crisp white shirt and classic blue jeans are the most elegant options. Forget the ritzy penthouse if vintage farmhouses float your boat. Glamour can be on your own terms.
  6. Don’t follow the trends, set them. If you follow trends, you’ll always be behind the curve. Amp up your glamour vibe by coming up with your own trends. Whether it’s in fashion, lifestyle, reading material, or anything that makes you feel creative, be a leader instead of a follower.
  7. Seek out ways to make the everyday extraordinary. This can mean hanging a vintage chandelier above your hand-me-down table, finding excuses to kiss in the rain, or just putting on high heels to hit the mailbox. If you’re feeling like your days have become a little beige, you don’t have to revamp your life, just add some color.

I don’t particularly recommend trying all of these. Pick out a couple that sound like “you” and give them a whirl. The point is that you don’t have to give up on life’s luxuries and little decadences just because you’re choosing a simpler life. You just need to pick the things that make your life better and more truly satisfying and focus on them. When you’ve got your own luxuries that you’ve consciously chosen, even the best marketing campaigns won’t be able to convince you that you need anything else.

Wrapping up Taking Time for Me in May with a GIVEAWAY!

May is officially drawing to a close and Taking Time for Me in May is over but what better way to bring things to a wonderful end than by a GIVEAWAY! A wonderful fantastic giveaway to give you the opportunity to take just a little bit more time for yourself!

Today’s giveaway is a $25 Spa Wish gift card – provided by me!  This gift card works at 4,000 salons & spas throughout the US & Canada!  The gift card is good for massages, facials, manicures, pedicures and hair styling!

To enter, leave a comment (of course I would love to have you as a follower & facebook fan!)!  Winner will be chosen tomorrow at 10am!

2 Year Anniversary – What Faith Can Do

Today marks an anniversary. 2 years ago I was recovering from a total hysterectomy.  My life would never be the same.  The irony of today is that I was asked to share my infertility and loss story (with my husband and 2 other couples) at our church this morning.  It was quite an emotional day.  It was almost like reliving certain aspects of the hysterectomy all over again.  And if it wasn’t hard enough sharing it once, we have two services so I got to share it twice!  It was hard but I was glad to share the opportunity to share my experience in hopes to bring awareness to the pain and loss associated with infertility and my untimely hysterectomy.  You can listen to the service online here (just click on launch sermon player and click Pain of Infertility).

Needless to say, it has been quite a journey these last two years.  A lot of happiness and a lot of tears.  But through it all, I believe I’ve become stronger.  Not on my own of course, but through my faith in God that He is in control and regardless of what happens He loves me and in the end that is all I need.  I came across this Kutless song today and it moved me to tears as I feel like it resonates so much with my story these last few years so I would like to share it with you.

KUTLESS – What Faith Can Do lyrics

Everybody falls sometimes
Gotta find the strength to rise
From the ashes and make a new beginning
Anyone can feel the ache
You think its more than you can take
But you are stronger, stronger than you know
Don’t you give up now
The sun will soon be shining
You gotta face the clouds
To find the silver lining

I’ve seen dreams that move the mountains
Hope that doesn’t ever end
Even when the sky is falling
And I’ve seen miracles just happen
Silent prayers get answered
Broken hearts become brand new
That’s what faith can do

It doesn’t matter what you’ve heard
Impossible is not a word
It’s just a reason for someone not to try
Everybody’s scared to death
When they decide to take that step
Out on the water
It’ll be alright
Life is so much more
Than what your eyes are seeing
You will find your way
If you keep believing

I’ve seen dreams that move the mountains
Hope that doesn’t ever end
Even when the sky is falling
And I’ve seen miracles just happen
Silent prayers get answered
Broken hearts become brand new
That’s what faith can do

Overcome the odds
You don’t have a chance
(That’s what faith can do)
When the world says you can’t
It’ll tell you that you can!

I’ve seen dreams that move the mountains
Hope that doesn’t ever end
Even when the sky is falling
And I’ve seen miracles just happen
Silent prayers get answered
Broken hearts become brand new
That’s what faith can do
That’s what faith can do!
Even if you fall sometimes
You will have the strength to rise 

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